Praying for Louis and Greg

Happy 34th Anniversary!

2011-09-10T08:51:00.000-05:00

Surely each of those 34 years has been easy, right?

Saturday mom and dad started off the celebration with a trip Brookshire, followed by lunch at a real restaurant, and finished it off with a movie date in Ganado. That’s quite a bit of activity – all of which is outside of the house! Happy Anniversary to both of you!

Last week dad had another Dr.’s appointment which included a CT-scan, and everything looked good. He’s actually doing so well, that he’s going to get 1 free day each week where he does not have to be on TPN at night. He used his “free night” on Saturday for his date! The blog posts have been MIA, but he’s still recovering well.

HOME SWEET HOME

2011-07-13T16:56:00.002-05:00

They made it home today. We are so grateful for what Dr. Saggi and Dr. Hall were able to do for him; and thankfully healing can continue in El Campo.

THE FINAL LAP By: Marilyn Goerig

2011-07-12T10:17:00.000-05:00

Help us to be grateful
Each day in our prayer.
Before we speak our petitions,
Let gratitude bring us there.

We say “In God’s Time”;
But we usually want more.
Our plans don’t always match
What God has in store.

Louie is improving
In all aspects of his care.
There is talk of going home;
To Louie an answered prayer.

His improvement is bittersweet;
It is difficult to rejoice
When they will no longer hear
Dr. Saggi’s reassuring voice.

Yes, Dr. Saggi is leaving
No doubt he will make history;
As a valued addition
At Tulane University.

Let us remember who’s really in charge
And let Him provide the map.
God has brought Louie this far;
He will manage his final lap.

2011-07-10T09:58:00.002-05:00

So much has happened this week! The fever has subsided , Louie got 2 units of blood that definitely gave him a bit more zip, the wound vac is out and he's eating a bit of pureed(yum yum) food. The CT scan showed the abcess to be getting smaller and no new worrisome details were apparent. We are moving toward the door once again! The saddest bit of news, however, is that Dr. Saggi is leaving to go to Tulane in New Orleans. We are truly upset about this as he was the the perfect "fit" for us. He is a surgeon with tremendous gastrointestinal experience. We felt we had the best with Dr. Duke, who in turn recommended the best for the next phase, Dr. Saggi. We will definitely be looking to Dr. Saggi to recommend our next physician choice. We are doing fine, but long for El Campo more each and every day. In the words of one of our favorites, Dorothy, from the Wizard of Oz, "there's no place like home". (geez, where's a good pair of ruby slippers when you need them?). Thanks once again for all the prayers and support -----Love, Ruthie

The Good, The Bad, and The Grateful

2011-07-04T17:50:00.002-05:00

The Good --Friday started off really well with Louie putting on real clothes in Occupational Therapy and venturing out of the room. He looked so handsome! Also, floor employees came around passing out Bingo cards. Patients were going to be playing Bingo at noon over the intercom. They asked if we wanted to play--I quickly answered "of course we would!!!" ( Good thing I was there, right?   Louie may not have REALIZED he wanted to play bingo) They handed out the daubers at noon and the playing began. Louie did well the first game needing only 1 number right away. He didn't win but it really was a nice diversion. What does one win in a hospital bingo game????? Your hospital stay is free? Somehow I doubt it, but it was fun nevertheless.
The Bad--Louie had been having fever off and on . Dr. Saggi ordered blood cultures of the lines and a CT scan. Saturday afternoon we got the news that there was something on the scan and we were moving back to the 9th floor. We later learned that the scan revealed an abscess in the abdomen by the colon. After another move, we arrived at 917. Honestly, in our almost 34 years of marriage we have lived in 2 places. That’s it-2!    During this 4 week hospital stay we have been in 6 rooms. It helps for keeping the clutter down but truly I think we enjoy a little more stability.
To assist in healing, a drain was placed by Interventional Radiology on Sunday. We are not going home on Tuesday. A real disappointment!!!!   Dr Saggi did say that the liver looks great. Lets hear it for the liver --it seems to have gotten the memo that we want to go home and has not been acting up or causing trouble like some of the other parts of the body.
The Grateful---We have been really down by this recent turn of events. In reality we know that this visit has not been THAT long and things could be so very much worse, but but we so looked forward to going home Tuesday. We were on the Rehab floor---the last step before the car door!! You know, Adios Hermann, Hello El Campo. We were out of sorts, praying for healing but not really having a good spirit. Depressed and irritated. Today, however, I read in one of my books that Jesus says "your praise and thanksgiving are distinctly audible in heaven. Your petitions are also heard but it is your gratitude that clears the way to My heart. Practice praising and thanking Me continually throughout this day." Hmm… this is a good idea. I remember Father Gary speaking once of adopting an "attitude of gratitude", choosing 10 things a day and thanking God for them. Anyway to make a long story short (oops, it's too late for that) today we only want to speak of the many wonderful things we have to be grateful for. The success of the surgery, the possibility of Louie eating normally again, Dr. Saggi. Dr. Hall, etc. It will take us all day, but I can't think of a better way to spend it. Have a Happy 4th of July!!!
With gratitude to each of you---Ruthie

Could it be?

2011-06-29T19:42:00.002-05:00

It's been mentioned that Mom and Dad may go home next Tuesday (4 weeks after surgery). How awesome that would be if it proved to be true! Dad would go home on TPN and continue to do rehab in El Campo. Hopefully they will not go home on antibiotics or with a wound vac. The wound vac appears to not be putting out anything! Could it be that this fistula is actually healing (or already healed)? Today he was able to start eating a couple of things- flavored ice and jello. Continue to pray that all goes well; the prayers are working! Another great day in Room 460.

2011-06-27T20:56:00.001-05:00

Moving Forward

First full day on the rehab floor.!!! (Saturday is a light day and Sunday a day of rest.)The schedule includes 3 hours of physical/occupational therapy --about 2 hours in the morning and an hour in the afternoon. With help I will also get him up to the chair this evening. So far so good---he is understandably tired but working hard to meet the challenges. They constantly include family members as we will be going home with the patient. It's all very interesting. We saw Dr. Saggi on the weekend and he continues to say the fistula will heal. In his words "It's just 4 steps forward and 1 step back". When we think of it in those terms it helps us remember the very successful outcome of the surgery. We are blessed with wonderful doctors!!!
Love to all
Ruthie

Visiting Pawpaw

2011-06-27T08:26:00.000-05:00

Dad got moved to the rehab floor on Friday evening and started his "work outs" on Saturday morning. He and mom are now residing in room 460. Rehab is tough, but he's doing great! They work with him 3 hours a day 6 days a week (Sunday is a day of rest). He has a busy schedule, but luckily he was able to fit in a visit from the grandkids between occupational and physical therapy.

The NG Tube’s History - Check out that handsome face!

2011-06-23T13:57:00.001-05:00

Yesterday was a “test”. The NG tube (the tube in his nose that pumps bile and such out of his stomach) was clamped off. If the fistula did not leak much in the following 24 hours they would remove the tube. Dad passed his test and the tube was removed this morning. Dad never really liked the NG (possibly because his nostril formed a permanent crease in its place after having the tube there for so long in 2009). This time the tube had fallen into that same familiar crease. Now the tube its gone. It’s amazing how much more photogenic one looks without a long straw sticking out of one’s nostril and a bandaid covering one’s nose.

Mom and Dad

Bonnie and Dad

A tentative plan for tomorrow – MOVE TO THE REHAB floor! Cross your fingers (or better yet say a little prayer). - Tracy

Patience 201 By: Marilyn Goerig

2011-06-22T13:13:00.001-05:00

Enough already!
Is Louie’s cry I’m sure.
The thought of one more setback
Is extremely hard to endure.

For over two years now,
We’ve learned and practiced patience.
As far as content mastery goes,
Louis achieved all “A’s”.

When his present surgery went so well;
He began to see the light.
Could there maybe be
An attainable goal in sight?

No doubt that end is still there,
With total healing achieved.
God is only testing us
To see if we still believe.

“In God’s Time” is very hard,
When you are ready to be done.
We will continue to pray
And study Patience 201

2011-06-21T21:55:00.001-05:00

The cause of the intermitten fever has been diagnosed. One of the central lines is infected. This was not immedately evident but "grew out" over days. To remedy this, Louie made a trip to Interventional Radiology this afternoon where a PICC line was inserted in his arm and the infected line removed..
Dr. Hall came by today and took the staples out of Louie's leg. This area was the donor site of a "flap" of skin, fat, and muscle that became the cover for the previously open abdomen. As you can imagine, that leg is very painful because of the deep section that was removed. It looks wonderful, and the doctors are very pleased. He also took the staples out of another area on his side--this patch was covered with a muscle flap---it also looks good. The stiches of the larger abdomen area will stay in longer but it is amazing. Dr. Hall confessed to putting much thought all hours of the day and night into this procedure. We essentially presented him with an open area with three mounds of leaking intstines outside his body and looked for answers. It was nothing that either he nor his asociate expected calling it a "plastic surgeons nightmare". The morning of the surgery he outlined Plan A, Plan B, or Plan C. We joined hands and prayed the Our Father togerther. I am so impressed with these surgeons who use their skills acknowledging that it only comes from God. He was able to put Plan A into effect with great results.
Louie was also begun evaluation to be consided for the rehab floor.. You must be able to tolerate 3 hours of therapy per day and meet other medical criteria. We hope that this move will be in his future.
As Tracy indicated, we were stunned on Sunday to hear the word fistula from Dr. Saggi . After he said that word I don't think we heard anything else. Our eperience with fistulas is so extreme! Since then we have been able to process that it is small, it should close by itself ( really? really?--we do not have the capacity to understand this) and he is doing well.
The NG tube in his nose will stay in for now, and the wound vac-these will both decrease the fluid of the fistula. Still no food or drink. He is hanging in there and I am really proud of him. We have a plaque at home that states "Faith makes things possible, not easy". How true!
Thanks for your continued healing prayers---Ruthie

2011-06-19T20:33:00.002-05:00

First and foremost, Happy Father’s Day! Bonnie, Suzanne and I have been blessed with such an amazing father. We are so grateful for all that he’s always done for us and continues to do. Even the day after this surgery when he was able to tell me to “be careful on my drive home and call someone when I got there”. I guess even when you’re still a little “loopy” from anesthesia you still don’t lose the dad in you.

As happy as we are to have such a great dad, we still did not have the joyous Father’s Day that we’d hoped for. Sunday morning Mom and Dad were told that Dad has developed a small fistula. FISTULA – oh how we HATE that word! This is a devastating blow! Fistulas are what he had before and what we wanted more than anything to eliminate. It’s thought to be very small and Dr. Saggi feels like it could heal on its own in 3-4 weeks. That is our ultimate prayer right now. Please continue to pray for the healing of this fistula. - Tracy

2011-06-17T12:19:00.002-05:00

The cause of the fever has not yet been determined. New antibiotics have begun and yesterday Louie had a CT scan to check the appearance of the bowel. There is some leakage, however,we hope this has nothing to do with the intestines or anything major but rather may have another origin. Dr. Saggi ordered a wound vac to draw out the fluid. The CT scan I believe showed nothing negative but was inconclusive. Today he went to Nuclear Medicine for a HIDA scan. This lasts for an hour in a tube like apparatus. . Louie was wrapped up in this velcro binder thing which made him feel in his words like a "burrito". Not fun, but done.
We will keep you posted if we find out anything. Dr. Saggi has surgery now and a transplant later so it is a busy day for him . He is really fabulous and takes good care of Louie. Our prayer now is for the bowel to be doing well and the leaking to be a fixable issue.

The good and the not so good...

2011-06-16T08:23:00.001-05:00

The Good
Currently mom and dad have a new "home". He's been transferred out of ICU/IMU and to a regular room (RM 923). This certainly means progress and I'm amazed at how quickly things are moving this time around. I say "mom and dad have a new home", because this also means that Mom and Aunt Rose aren't sleeping in the waiting room anymore. :) Dad was able to sit in a chair yesterday for 2 hours (not a regular guest chair, a neurochair). It wasn't comfortable (and was painful), but he did it!

Not So Good
Okay guys, your prayers worked wonders on the swollen arm so I'm coming here with another request. This morning he has fever. I guess this is his next hurdle, so whatever prayers you sent up earlier this week please send them again. Maybe this has something to do with the central line, but hopefully it is doesn't mean that infections are setting into any of his surgicial sites. Until later. - Tracy

2011-06-14T22:01:00.000-05:00

The ultrasound showed a superficial vessel that may cause the swelling. This is not harmful, so no additional care is needed other than possibly a bit if heat. Thank you again for your continued prayers.

Bump in the Road

2011-06-14T08:52:00.000-05:00

Hopefully this is just a small bump and not truly a setback. Dad's right arm is swollen. He will be taken for an ultrasound this morning to check for a blood clot or a problem with the central line. A better case scenario would be fluid build up. Dad's really worried about this, so please pray that they determine the cause (and are able to fix it) soon.

Touched By An Angel

2011-06-13T11:01:00.001-05:00

Yesterday I started the day in the most wonderful way. I looked across the waiting room to see my dear friend, Judith. We hugged and greeted each other joyously. It was again more than a coincidence to see her because Judith was scheduled for housekeeping on the 8th floor. When she came in, her supervisor oddly sent her to Hermann 3--ICU. If you don't remember Judith , I can only describe her as an angel sent to me at the most unusual times. She would comfort and reassure me when I was afraid and later celebrate with me when I was most hopeful. She confidently told me that Louie would indeed wake up (even though much time had passed with no signs of this). I only saw her a handful of times but she seemed to "know" things. Yesterday she reminded me that God always has a plan laid out for us. Sometimes we must wait paitiently to see that plan (as in our case) but it's always in place. I told her how much her kindnes and faith meant to me in those chance encounters. I called her my angel. She said that we all have someone in time of need that God,in his goodness, sends to us.

This may be difficult for some people to understand. You may not believe the odd circumstances that caused me to see Judith at random times in our previous 9 months at Hermann and again now. It doesn't really matter if you believe her to be an angel, as I do, or not. If we could all be a little more like her the world would be a better place. I'll tell you why I think this to be true. When I look into those beautiful brown eyes I see deep faith, love and acceptance. No matter what you believe, know this---------JESUS shines through Judith.

Blessing to you all, Ruthie

2011-06-13T08:53:00.004-05:00

All continues to go very well. Dad said yesterday, "if visitors come tell them to wake me up; I don't want to miss seeing anyone." We laugh at this, because back in the early part of 2009 hundreds of visitors came and he wasn't awake to see any of them! We are just so thankful to be having such a different ICU experience. I could go on an on about how different it is. First and foremost he's awake! He's not telling mom "to go get his other wife". He's not insisting that the nurses are all drug dealers who stash weapons in his bedding. He knows who all of us are and he speaks coherently!
He's been watching TV and flipping channels. His only complaint is that he doesn't get the channels that play "westerns" all day. I personally don't even remember them having a TV in their previous ICU rooms. I hear that they did, but it never once was turned on. I guess I didn't realize that people back there actually watched TV. I thought everyone was in "our boat"; making brief visits with little activity. He's asked to have his cell phone at his bedside, but apparently that's against the rules. He has many friends that he's ready to call!
They've spoke about trying to get him out of bed sometime toward the end of this week. Undoubtedly this will be painful, but its progress that far supercedes the timeline I had in mind. Recovery is off to a great start!

2011-06-11T19:42:00.000-05:00

Another good day
Today Louie reunited with a very dear friend-----the remote control. He sleeps a lot but like most men happily flips the stations during his awake moments. This is somenthing we women will never understand but I have to say, today I love it, because it looks so NORMAL.
    Yesterday he said he felt like an old dog--that had been run over. Today he expressed feelings akin to a butchered chicken. These men with country roots certainly have colorful ways to express themselves! The main thing is the pain is tolerable, his sense of humor is in place, and the doctors are happy.

With thanks to God, so are we................

Blessings to all of you,   Ruthie

2011-06-10T11:50:00.000-05:00

The good news continues. He had a great night. We knew he would be weaned from the vent today, but were very surprised that he was already off this morning. He's groggy and sleeping most of the time, but he has opened his eyes and talked a little bit. To answer most questions he just nods, but it's easy to tell that he's coherent. It's so nice to have him already awake today. He squeezed my hand when I asked, and wow he's stronger than I remember! Mom is back visiting with him now. Unlike in the first go round, he does remember that he's married to her. :) Life is good!

#97

2011-06-09T22:45:00.001-05:00

"Behold, behold the mighty one has done great things for me."

Surgery is complete, healing has begun!!! I have cried this evening; tears of pure thankful JOY! To each of you who prayed, lifting Louie up - please know how powerful your prayers are. I feel as if ALL of you were here in this waiting room with us. Your love and devotion to Louie is unmeasurable.
We will continue to ask God to protect him from infection or leaking intestine, but this leg of the relay race is moving closer to the finish line.

Friends, family, and even strangers - You are our companions on the journey and with all our hearts we thank you!
The book of Mark says if you ask for anything in faith, and truly believe, you will receive it.

We believe with all our hearts... We believe.

God's blessings,
Ruthie, Tracy, Bonnie, and Suzanne

2011-06-09T21:16:00.000-05:00

Dr. Saggi has been to meet with us and his words things are going "better than best case scenario". Plastics are not finished but should be shortly. He will then be moved to transplant ICU. We are waiting patiently in the same waiting room where we waited on January 28,2009. Today's updates have all been great news. We've heard that things are wrapping up and he should be out of surgery soon.

2011-06-09T16:53:00.000-05:00

We hear that the doctors will be able to use a flap from the left leg to cover the abdomen. This is preferable to using skin from a donor (which was a possibility). They have not yet done the flaps, but they've reported that he is doing well and the surgery should last another 4-5 hours (if this is the case it will be much shorter than the original estimate). Thanks so much for your prayers. God continues to hold Louie in his hands.

2011-06-09T14:50:00.000-05:00

The latest report says that Dr. Saggi has finished his part. Ten additional centimeters were removed however he must have had more small intestine than they originally thought. He still has ~75 centimeters remaining. This is 15cm more that we even thought he had. Now plastic surgeons are beginning their part with Dr. Saggi assisting.
We thank you for your continued prayers!

2011-06-09T13:41:00.000-05:00

Update: going well, Dr. Saggi is still working on the reconnection and plastics has not started yet. Dad is tolerating it well but they said it will be very long. Things started late this morning and we just learned they actually didn't start the operation until 10:37.

In surgery

2011-06-09T08:53:00.000-05:00

Things got started a bit late this morning, but they took him back a little while ago. I will post updates that we get during the day. Please keep him and the surgeons in prayer. We know he is in the best of hands. - Tracy

Healing By: Marilyn Goerig

2011-06-08T10:20:00.000-05:00

In the beginning we feared the worst
As Louie fought for his life;
We prayed and begged God for healing
If he could only survive.

Many months of struggles
To manage all of the problems;
It seemed like every step was uphill
On a steep and rocky mountain.

Louie did survive the trauma,
God answered many prayers;
We began to rejoice in the thought
All this was leading somewhere.

This time as we pray for healing
Please give his doctors the skills;
To bring Louie all the way back
From his disabling ills.

Return him to health and wellness
In life as he knew it before;
Put him on the path to recovery
And open every door.

2011-06-04T09:27:00.000-05:00

To our Companions on the Journey:

Once again I find myself reaching out to each of you! Louie will definitely be having the surgery to reconnect his intestines and remove the fistulas that are outside his body. Plastic surgeons will then cover all of this with blood supply and skin to protect the abdominal area.We will go in to Hermann Memorial on the June 8th with surgery performed on the morning ofJune 9th They predict it will be long--15 -18 hours. He is really frightened of this and tears up often about it. His fears seem to come from the length of the surgery, the deep areas that they will take off his legs to cover the abdomen and maybe the possibility of dying. Truthfully I cry with him at times as we anticipate an opportunity to possibly to live more normally, or things not working out and infection and more fistulas developing. Dr. Saggi and the 2 other surgeons feel he is mentally and physically ready but fear is still real. Talking to Tracy, we have organized a "reaching out" for friends and family to send him notes of support BEFORE the surgery. These can be mailed to our home (2105 Kirby Dr.) emailed to rbuzek@sbcglobal.net or just dropped off at the library or our house. Recently, Father Gary had a most poignant sermon about a marathon in which he participated . Overwhelmed by the fatigue he felt he could go no farther on his 'cement' legs, The people lining the course who cheered him were critical . When he felt absolutely exhausted in the last of the 26 miles, he came upon parishioners shouting words of encouragement and promising to "see him at the finish line". He went on to finish the race. What a great parallel this story is for the difficult times in life. A kind word or spoken prayer can go a long way. If you could find a moment to write Louie a note of support it would mean so much. Also a prayer service will be held on Monday June 6th at 6:30 pm. He will be annointed again at this time. There is such power in" two or more gathered in His name". I long for that kind of intercession for Louie. Marilyn Goerig is also organizing volunteers to cover him with prayer constantly during the surgery. Finally, I want to thank all of you!!! You have been a tremendous source of love and encouragement in our 2 1/2 year marathon.We are so grateful to have you run what we hope will be this last leg of the race with us and ultimately we pray to rejoice with each of you "at the finish line."

Love to you all,

Ruthie

Wedding

2011-05-18T09:05:00.001-05:00

A MATTER OF THE HEART
By: Marilyn Goerig

Bonnie’s wedding day is done;
It’s now a lifetime memory.
From the dress, to the flowers, to the “I do’s”;
With hundreds of friends and family.
The wedding date was moved;
So Louie could do his part.
Moving the wedding for Bonnie was easy;
It was only a matter of the heart.

Louie wore a tuxedo;
He was quite a handsome sight.
He walked Bonnie down the aisle;
In church, there was not a dry eye.

Louie needs our prayers again;
He is hoping for a brand new start.
With a little Faith, it will be easy;
It is only a matter of the heart.

We are still waiting on the surgery. Last week it was decided that a third surgeon would be be included in what is expected to be a quite lengthy procedure (15-18 hrs). The good news the surgeons are wonderful and a game plan is definitely in place. The bad news is: due to the coordination of their schedules it definitely will not be this week or next week. There will be another meeting this week, and hopefully THEN we will finally have a date. Until then we're just waiting...

A Daddy's Wish, A Daughter's Love

2011-04-30T15:06:00.001-05:00

“I won’t have the wedding without you, Dad”. “Don’t worry, Bonnie, I’ll be there”. A recent exchange between Bonnie and Louie revealed that the wonderful wedding that Bonnie had carefully planned might now conflict with the opportunity for Louie to have the long awaited surgery to reconnect his intestines. This surgery combined with the skill of a plastic surgeon to cover and protect the intestines would be very serious. Recovery time could be extensive. This was the opportunity for her dad to eat regularly, eliminate the leaking bag, and possibly move forward to a new “normal” in his life. She \planned the wedding so far out with a 14 month engagement only to have the surgery now appear to collide with the wedding . Bonnie, however, never looked back in her joyous encouragement to have the surgery as soon as possible. There were worries about whether dad would be recovered enough to attend the June 25th wedding. If complications occurred she could not fathom having the wedding without him there. No, answers, no promises… Hospital stays can be unpredictable as we learned in the past. Uncharted territory can sometimes have roadblocks. ….Bonnie , with Michael’s blessing started a ball rolling that took her entire June 25th wedding --church, civic center, caterer , florist, photographer etc. etc EVERY DETAIL to early May. She literally “picked up” the whole wedding and moved to a week before the surgery. Truly God had a hand in this.
In summary, on May 7th, 2011, Louie will proudly walk Bonnie down the aisle of St. Philip Church to marry Michael Kaspar. It will be a joyous and proud moment as we are surrounded by family and friends. I have learned much from this experience---Life doesn’t always conform to our carefully planned agenda, however, with God anything is possible. Most of all I’ve learned that the most precious gift doesn’t come wrapped in shiny paper.There may be no beautiful bow or glittery ribbon. You might not even be able to unwrap the tissue and tape. Why? Because sometimes the most precious gift is the gift of love.

Changes...

2011-03-22T21:01:00.004-05:00

"I know the plans I have for you", says the Lord, "plans to prosper and not to harm you, to give you hope and a future." Jeremiah 29:11

Message from Ruthie:

Our visit to Dr. Saggi was a good one, for many changes are in the works. First of all, Louie will begin immediately to have "Vital", a shake-like supplement 3 times a day. It comes in FLAVORS! Hopefully it will be very tasty. We also found out that his liver is not permanently damaged, and possibly can be improved by this introduction to food that will cause it to work a bit.

He has very little small intestine (approximately 60-70 cm) compared to what most of us have ~700 cm . The large intestine is shortened as well, however Dr. Saggi feels that these amounts are still ENOUGH to attempt to reconnect him. Bonnie, Louie and I all had tears of joy! This event could be soon. We will return in two weeks to see what effect the supplement is having on him and make further plans from there.

Although it has been our prayer for so long, and that of so many prayer warriors who speak to God on Louie's behalf, it is a bit scary. We do know from past experience however, that if God brings you to it, He will bring you through it. He has given us all of the tools needed on this long journey starting with a wonderful EMS crew, Dr. Red Duke, supportive family and friends, cooperative workplaces, to finally Dr. Saggi (a reputable specialist referred to us by Dr. Duke).

Thank you, thank you, for your prayers. You are all our campanions on the journey. Although we know that unexpected things can always happen, we constantly remind ourselves of those words that mean so much. God has plans for Louie's future, plans to prosper and not to harm him. We gratefully hold on to this new gift, the gift of HOPE.

Prayers for the Liver

2011-03-15T08:50:00.000-05:00

Today Mom and Dad headed back to Hermann for Dad's liver biopsy. His liver has not be functioning well, and this is will help determine the next move. We pray that the damage is not permanent. Next Tuesday they will meet with Dr. Saggi again to go over all the results.

Happy Birthday Louie!

2011-02-28T10:08:00.004-06:00

Today my old man turns 57. Two years ago, things were more bleak, and we compiled a very long list of our favorite things in honor of his 55th birthday. Last year we were were so thankful to be able to celebrate with one heck of a party! Today on his 57th birthday he headed off to his exercise class this morning and he'll probably mill around town later today. Tomorrow is a big day for him; he and mom will head to Houston and meet with Dr. Saggi (the transplant surgeon that Dr. Duke recommended). We hope that this may be an answer to our prayers. Happy Birthday Dad!

Appointment 2/7/11

2011-02-08T11:57:00.000-06:00

Yesterday Dad returned to see Dr. Duke. The wait was long (Duke's a busy man), but thankfully he was ready to discuss the questions mom had compiled. Questions about the dreaded central line in his neck, line infections and difficulty inserting new lines, alternative bandages, and most importantly - WHAT'S NEXT?
Duke is concerned that there is not enough small intestine left (with removal of the fistulas), because so much was removed in the first few weeks following the accident. We do know however that the amount of large bowel remaining is adequate. Therefore Dr. Duke is referring Dad to a fellow surgeon, Dr. Bob Saggi. He's already spoken to this surgeon, and he will make an appointment for Dad to see him. Dr. Saggi will then determine if dad is a candidate for a small bowel transplant.

We having been looking for a door to open; to know what to do next? We pray that this is it. If he is not a candidate, then maybe there is something else for him. He desperately wants to one day be able to eat something again, and regain enough strength to hold his grandkids.

STORM HEAVEN'S GATES ONCE MORE

2011-02-05T09:43:00.000-06:00

Dad will go back to see Dr. Duke on Monday, and we are asking for additional prayers. Unfortunately the central line did end up in his neck last week; so he's trying to get used to that.

The following was written by Marilyn Goerig for my mom and dad.

STORM HEAVEN'S GATES ONCE MORE

I’ve never been a patient person;

My husband would be first to agree.
But over the years I’ve improved;
When I let go, let God, not me.
Louie, on the other hand,
Is the most patient person I know.
Even before this terrible event,
He seemed to go with the flow.

The last two years have been traumatic;
A hardship to say the least.
The pain, the weakness, the bandages;
And missing each family feast.

He has been an inspiration,
Strengthening everyone’s Faith.
The Bible tells us be patient;
For all good things we wait.

We’ve been less persistent in our prayers;
As we beg for Louie’s recovery.
It’s time for a renewed fervor;
With each petition and plea.

In a renewed cry for healing,
We’ll join together as before;
To lift our hearts and voices,
And storm heaven’s gates once more.

Another Test of Patience - Waiting

2011-01-31T09:04:00.001-06:00

As usual things don't follow our plan, and again we are waiting (trying to be patient). Friday marked two years, but Friday evening Dad developed a fever (reaching 103), and he wound up back in the hospital. It's been determined that he has a line infection, but we are also "patiently waiting" to see what else the culture might grow. His appointment with Dr. Duke will have to be rescheduled for a later date while the issue at hand is taken care of. We know that Tuesday he will have to get a new line. With Dr. Duke's appointment postponed, we have a new prayer request. These lines have proven to be very difficult to insert. It seems that he has run out of veins to use. We pray that they are able to find a vein on his upper shoulder to insert the line; so he can be as comfortable as possible. He once had to have one of these lines in his neck and it was terrible!

2

2011-01-28T12:15:00.001-06:00

2 years, my gosh was it really 2 years ago that so much changed? 2 years ago, we all went off to work as usual, and that evening things quickly spiraled beyond our control. Whoever would have thought that that cold night in January would be able to be replayed so vividly 2 years later.

The message below was written by Mom and Dad's friend Donna, and it truly touch both their hearts. Sometimes living in the here and now and taking each day as it comes can be difficult; but for that we pray!

Hi all, well it has been nice to not have any crisis involving Louie lately isn't it? He has been doing well but is not done yet. It will be 2 years on Friday since the accident. He is mobile and drives himself to exercise and various places. He has had several episodes of pancreatitis but has dealt with them admirably here locally without a trip to Houston. But Monday he will be going in for a check up with Dr. Red.
I guess the purpose of this email is to ask that we all continue to pray for Louie. While he is maintaining his lifestyle and health, he is not done. He still deals with the fistulas, leaking and bandaging and not eating. He still hasn't regained his stamina and endurance which has hopes will return with the final surgery. He wants to be done with the drainage and get on with his life. Even if things do not go as planned with surgery, if he could just get closed up to be able to function without that bandage. Ruthie and I often talk about how much the prayers did for him in the beginning. How prayer truly saved his life.
We both believe the power of prayer is what guided each of the steps between Jan. 28 2009 and today.
I guess what I am saying is that I am as guilty as the rest of not perhaps praying with the intensity I should for Louie, though pray I do. He truly needs our prayers to complete this journey - to pass the finish line and resume his life as normally as possible. So please pray, pray for a good appointment, for some closure possibly and for the strenghth and patience to do it all in God's time. thank you for always being there.

Grandparent’s Day

2010-11-23T20:13:00.001-06:00

Today students at Creek View Elementary (Cayla’s school) honored their grandparents. Last year at this time Dad had just been released from the hospital, and he was unable to make a trip to College Station. Mom came to represent the grandparents, but Dad vowed that this year he’d be there too. He definitely held up his end of the bargain and today they both joined her for lunch. I picked up Chinese food for the group, which included some “Wonton-less” Wonton Soup for Pawpaw.

Cayla thanks you so much for coming today, Mimi and Pawpaw!

Home Again, Home Again

2010-11-04T07:30:00.001-05:00

Dad made it home yesterday afternoon. Tuesday Dr. Young surgically inserted a new line, but that proved to be quite difficult. I guess Dad has had so many lines, that it is becoming increasingly difficult to get them in. Thankfully they were able get it done, and now we're just hoping it lasts... a long time. Dad's sore, but very happy to be back home!

Comings and Goings

2010-10-29T23:41:00.003-05:00

To say nothing has been going on is not exactly true. Up until a week ago, there really was not much going on. With us - no news is good news! Dad managed to stay pretty healthy and he'd been able to get out of the house quite a bit driving around and visiting some friends.

Last weekend he was admitted to the hospital in El Campo with pancreatitis. Hospital stays aren't exactly fun, but the stay in EC wasn't bad at all. It was practically like being at home. To say Mom and Dad were "happy" to not be sent back to Houston is a huge understatement. We've had two hospital stays in Houston this year (one in March and one in August), and each short stay stretched on much longer than ever anticipated. It really is impossible to get discharged from that place! This time (in El Campo) Dad stayed for a few days then was released (just in time to watch Game 1 of the World Series). The Ranger's poor performance was quite possibily more disappointing than the hospital stay itself.

As of today they are back at ECMH with a line infection. Antibiotics were started, the line was removed and a temporary one was inserted. Monday or Tuesday they will surgically insert another. It looks like he will be there for at least the next few days.

Luckily because things had been going so well, Mom and Dad both were able to make it to College Station for Cayla's birthday a few weeks ago.

Last year Dad really wanted to make it to Cayla's birthday party, but he wasn't discharged yet. Last year at
that time we were on the count down. However, one year ago today, he was loaded up and taken home.

Blast from the past - 10/29/09

Sometimes it seems like ages ago, sometimes it seems like not so long at all, but it's amazing how far he's come. We have so very much to be thankful for!

The Pictures I Promised

2010-09-07T11:33:00.002-05:00

I’m sure this is already long forgotten, but if you go back a couple of posts you’ll see I promised some pictures from Leslie and Gary’s wedding. Here they are!

He's Home!

2010-08-14T09:36:00.000-05:00

Who would have thought that a battle with pancreatitis could last practically a week? Getting into Hermann is fairly easy. You can come by helicopter, ambulance, car, or just walk on in off the street. Of course I'm not recommending it as some place to book your next outing, but if you need to - you can get there. Getting discharged is nearly impossible. After they determined the pancreatitis earlier in the week, mom and dad started pressing them about his release. He was so ready to go home, but each day came and went and at the end of the day he was still there. The main treatment for pancreatitus is "Nothing By Mouth", and REST! What part of that can't be done from home? Actually, what part of that doesn't he already do? Finally, we got word that he might be able to go home on Friday. Boy was he ready! However it looked like Friday might turn to Saturday with still no release. Last night around 11 he made it back to El Campo. THANK GOODNESS! Another night in the hospital might have landed him in the Psych Ward! He's encountered these same hold ups each time he's been released. The first time, I wanted to blame it on the fact that he'd been there for 9 months. I don't know what excuse I can give for the other times, but I do know that next time something pops up he'll fight that trip to Hermann tooth and nail! He's surely glad to be back home, and some healthier days ahead are definitely in the plan. How nice it would be to not have to go back until the next round of surgeries?

**The next round of surgeries are still some time away. Duke did an evaluation during this stay, and determined that it's just not ready. We were really hoping that the next surgeries would be soon, but unfortunately the waiting continues.

Detour

2010-08-09T12:54:00.000-05:00

A trip back to Hermann was in order this weekend. Some vomitting followed by tightness in his sides made him worry that something was amiss. Yesterday morning they headed to Houston. They could have taken their time (and packed more than just the TPN), because Sunday's turned to Monday and no assigned room, much less diagnosis. All day was spent back in Emergency, but after midnight they were finally moved to Jones 6. The X-Ray showed nothing, and we're still waiting on the official results of the CT Scan.

More to follow when a definitive answer is reached. Dad's ready for that definitive answer, because he's ready to head back home. He clearly remembers just how hard it is to get released from that joint.

On happier note: Friday, Mom and Dad headed to the Magnolia area for Leslie (Greg's daughter) and Gary's wedding. Hopefully I'll have some pictures to post soon!

Road Trip to Forney

2010-08-06T16:33:00.002-05:00

Another family get together attended! This time all the way to Forney to attend Rose and Karl’s Pool Party and finally meet cousin Logan!

Happy to be in New Braunfels for the 4th of July

2010-07-12T10:19:00.001-05:00

How nice is it is to have all of us back there together. We’ve been making this annual trip (with aunts, uncles, cousins, and even second cousins) for over 20 years. The first time I remember going was the year I graduated from kindergarten… so maybe we’ve been doing this for closer to 25 years. We were so glad to have Mom and Dad join us again this year. All of the hours spent packing countless medical supplies was well worth it, and Dad even got to hit the golf course to ride along with the guys.

On the medical front, no news these days. He’s just trucking along and waiting for what the next step may be. All’s well!

Going to the Chapel – June 2011

2010-05-21T15:58:00.001-05:00

Dad get ready, you have another daughter to walk down the aisle.

Congratulations Bonnie and Michael!

Road Trip

2010-05-11T16:20:00.001-05:00

He’s driving! I would say “watch out El Campo”, but Lord knows he’s a better driver than most. His first trip was to Nada to celebrate Mother’s Day. Happy Mother’s Day Mom; it looks like you have your chauffer back.

Trip to Aggieland

2010-04-25T21:27:00.000-05:00

There hadn't been much to report. Things continue to go pretty well. Last Friday a trip to College Station was in order to see Suzanne receive her Aggie Ring. This was Dad's first trip back Aggieland and boy were we excited to have him back!

Happy Easter!

2010-04-05T14:12:00.001-05:00

We had a wonderful Easter. Dad is doing well, and it was so great to have him celebrating with us this year. It wasn't hard to beat last year's Easter spent in the STICU conference room.

The kids were happy to hunt eggs out in the yard; rather than the hospital's ground floor lobby. :)

Home

2010-03-21T14:24:00.002-05:00

Mom and Dad made it back home last night around 11. The plan for a Friday discharge did not work out after Dad's fistulas were not draining properly. That was resolved on Friday and after another night of observation Duke agreed he could go home on Saturday. Saturday turned into quite a waiting game, but they made home (just significantly later than they hoped).

All's Well

2010-03-18T18:39:00.001-05:00

Surgery went well, and Dad made it back to his room. He was nauseous, but so happy he could talk. Thanks to everyone for the prayers.

Out

2010-03-18T15:00:00.001-05:00

I don't know how it went, but it's finished and he's been in recovery since ~2:30. Dr. Duke was going to go in a cauterize some more of the area around the fistulas which is probably why it took a little longer. That's just speculation... maybe it was always going to take a few hours. Mom's heard that he should be back in the room in 30 minutes.

Surgery #96

2010-03-18T08:23:00.001-05:00

Dad will go to surgery today at 11. Keep him in your prayers, and I update later when he's out.

Waiting

2010-03-17T08:36:00.000-05:00

THe waiting continues. The surgery to close the trach area is finally set. It will be done Thursday at 11. Dad will stay at least until Friday (hopefully not any longer). He's tired of being there, but glad that a plan is finally in place. This hospital is kind of like a jail cell... it's a lot easier to get in than to get out. :)

Moved to the Floor

2010-03-15T09:21:00.000-05:00

Well this stay has turned out to be a little longer than we hoped. He's moved out of IMU and back to Jones 6. The room is pretty small, but again we're hoping for a pretty short stay. Duke did a bedside procedure the other day to cauterize some vessels around the fistulas, and the bleeding has completely stopped. At this point they are trying have the trach surgery done while he's there. The area where the trach formerly was is scheduled to be closed on 3/31. This procedure will be done at Hermann and require an overnight stay. Now that the bleeding is no longer causing concern, it would be nice to just have this done and not have to return anytime soon. Hopefully it will all work out.

Very Brief Update

2010-03-12T08:40:00.002-06:00

Some tests were run yesterday and the source of the bleeding could not be found. However the bleeding did stop or at least slow considerably. Today they will try again to find the source. If he is not actively bleeding today it will make it difficult to find where he once was bleeding. The IMU stay doesn't seem so bad; hopefully it will be a short one. :) Thank you all for your prayers.

ENT turns into IMU

2010-03-11T13:22:00.000-06:00

Louie went back to Houston to his ENT follow-up appointment. The last procedure went well and they've scheduled the trach hole to be closed in another surgery (03/31/2010). This will require an overnight stay, but sounds fairly simple.

That brings us to the here and now. Louie has had some bleeding from the abdomen area that started this morning. After his ENT visit he headed to the Hermann ER where Dr. Duke was paged. Dr. Duke has put him in IMU to run some tests. I don't believe this to be too alarming, but he needs to find the source of the bleeding and ultimately make it stop. I'll try to post an update when I know a little more. If anyone still reads this, send a short prayer up for him this afternoon.

Out

2010-03-02T15:03:00.001-06:00

He's out of surgery and all is well. He's currently sleeping in recovery.

#95

2010-03-02T08:08:00.002-06:00

Thankfully it's been a while since we've had a numbered post. Today, however, remember Louie in your prayers as he goes to Houston for a day surgery (#95). An ENT will do some work where his trach previously was. I'll update later when he's out.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY LOUIE!

2010-02-28T20:19:00.000-06:00

Putting 56 candles in Jello sounded a bit risky so we opted to go this route instead. We still had to sing rather quickly as dessert melted.

Appointment with an ENT

2010-02-19T14:20:00.000-06:00

Add another Dr. to the list - an ENT. The area where his trach once was has not closed. This makes it it difficult for him to speak - hence why he puts a hankie (or folded pillowcase) over the opening when he talks. This particular ENT was recomended by Denise, and today they headed to Houston for their first appointment. The ENT saw some granulation in the area, so before they work on closing this area dad will have a short surgery. This procedure will be on March 2nd, and then at a later date he'll possibly have a second procedure to close the hole if the steri-strip method does not work.

While they were in the Med-Center, a trip to Jones 6 was in order (the Pavillion and Floor where they resided for so long). It was great to be back... JUST FOR A VISIT! Of course everyone thought that dad looked amazing! I have to agree... he does. :)

Not a whole lot going on this week, but on the 28th Dad turns 56. Since he slept through his 55th birthday, we'll have to really celebrate number 56!

KC Family of the Year

2010-02-01T20:44:00.000-06:00

This weekend we were awarded K.C. Family of the Year. The entire evening was quite amazing. Bonnie, Suzanne, and I had been given some insight that this award was coming. We came to El Campo to secretly be there when Mom and Dad's names were called. The honor came as a complete surprise to them, but apparently Dad had another surprise of his own. Upon receiving the award he motioned for a song to be played (something he'd arranged earlier in the evening). The music started (That's the Way Love Goes - "their song" from when they were dating) and he asked mom to dance. Who knew he was such a romantic? :) Being able to dance again is something that they talked about in the hospital (dating back as early as the ICU days). They always said they would dance again, even when Dad was not yet able to even walk. Saturday night was so sweet. They danced, and they danced very well. The K.C. officers and their wives circled around them as if it were the first dance of their wedding. There weren't many dry eyes in the hall.

Appointment with Duke

2010-01-30T12:45:00.000-06:00

The appointment with Dr. Duke went well. It was good to see him --he is as feisty as ever!! He looked at the fistula area and felt it was looking better and going in the right direction. It is not ready yet for the surgery that will allow Louie to eat. We were however, encouraged by words like "when it happens" and not "if". Dr. Duke gave signs to look for so we may better assess when he will be closer to surgery. Meanwhile we ask you to continue to pray for Louie's return to complete health. I read recently that God has three answers for prayer:

1) Yes

2) Not yet

3) I have another plan for you

We have been so blessed thus far as God continues to hold Louie in His hands. We will move forward one day at a time. We BELIEVE.

Love to all ,

Ruthie

1 YEAR

2010-01-28T06:00:00.002-06:00

Many changes have occurred since January 28, 2009. After 94 surgeries, kidney failure, 268 units of blood, a failing liver, cardiac arrests, infections, maggots, 3 months in ICU, and 9 months in Hermann Hospital we’ve learned a few things that will forever be a part of us.

1. We now know that the goodness and generosity of people knows no race, religion, or economic background.

2. We are confident that in a crisis each of our daughters can individually bring their own strengths to a situation, and collectively we can weather a storm.

3. We are blessed with friends and family who never cease to lessen the load.

4. The power of prayer knows no limits. Prayer can be a thought, a personal conversation, or a memorized request; it doesn’t matter God listens.

5. The human body is amazingly resilient but the human spirit knows no bounds. Louie’s drive to complete therapy, despite setbacks and surgeries, was inspiring.

6. Be it the house you live, the church you attend, your workplace, or your neighborhood; there’s no place like home.

Love to all, Ruthie

It’s been a year and I am grateful for the new people I’ve met, old friends, and people I don’t even know who prayed for me and were so generous. I go back to see Dr. Duke on Friday and I’d like people to continue to ask God for a positive outlook for future surgeries . -Louie

Happy Birthday

2010-01-23T17:35:00.000-06:00

Just a small shout out to Ruthie on her birthday. I'd hate to publish her age, but as the lone writer a on this blog (anymore) I guess I can really publish whatever I want. :) Happy Birthday Mom! We admire your courage and faithfulness through out this past year. May your 54th year be amazing!

The Next Step

2010-01-20T11:26:00.000-06:00

We're eagar to hear it! Dad will go back to see Dr. Duke at the end of this month. 1 year and 1 day after their unfortunate first meeting, we hope to here what trick Duke has up his sleeve next. This is actually the 3 month follow-up visit since his release, but maybe there will be some discussion of the future surgeries, maybe there will be a timeline, or maybe we will not really learn anything at all. I guess we'll see!

In other news, dad's TPN has been switched again. We thought that base case scenario was 12 and 12 (I.V. TPN for 12 hours a day and off for the other 12 hours). Previously he was at 14 and 10 and that actually proved to be quite nice. Yesterday he started a new schedule and it was changed to 10 and 14. Who knew that was even a possibility? The TPN will be able to run during the night and he will not have to have it between 8:30 a.m and 10:30 p.m.

With the weather warming up a bit he's been able to get out some. He's been able to ride around with Greg, go with Tim to Shoppas, and attend to church regularly. Next on the To-Do list (thanks to this great new 10:30 p.m."curfew"), a K.C. meeting next Tuesday night!

Will This Cold Weather Ever End?

2010-01-11T09:36:00.002-06:00

I hear it's about over, but soon we will just be trading ice for rain. The ridiculous cold, has turned dad into a prisioner of his own home. Physical Therapy (that consists of walking inside the house), has him really itching to get out. He's ready to walk the streets again, and possibly take more "field trips". (so far he's visited Shoppa's and R&M, but I'm sure there are more places he'd like to go)

The TPN schedule of 14 and 10 should continue for a couple more weeks and then he could possibly change to 12 and 12. 12 and 12 sounds great, but we're amazed at how wonderful 14 and 10 is.

I guess that's all for now. Things are going very well!

Changes

2009-12-30T15:31:00.001-06:00

Things are changing - for the better! Mom returned to work at the library yesterday. Thankfully Dad has some really great friends and family who are willing to come hang out with him while she's at work. I'm assuming the first day back to work went alright since they allowed her return today.

Over the holidays Dad's TPN pump rate was increased where he'd get the same amount of nutrition in less time. It was changed to 18 & 6, meaning he got to be unhooked between 8 and 2 (6 hours) and be "fed" the other 18 hours. This made it a little easier for him to get out on Christmas to visit family and go to church this past Sunday. Traveling with an IV pole can be a bit tricky. Yesterday mom was able to unhook it before work and then come home on her lunch break to hang the new bag. This past Monday they did the usual blood work (this is done every week), and everything looked good. Today the pump rate was increased again; this time to 14 & 10. He is able to be unhooked between 8:30 and 6:30 which is great! Of course the ultimate goal is to be able to one day not have the TPN at all, but in the mean time our short-term TPN goal is to get to 12 & 12. I'm under the impression that's the best it can get (12 on and 12 off).

All is going well!

Merriest Christmas

2009-12-27T22:48:00.001-06:00

We had an amazing Christmas. Christmas Eve started off a bit rocky when dad had some bleeding from the fistulas, but thankfully it stopped on it's own fairly quickly. The thought of having to return to Houston for Christmas was devastating. After the bleeding ceased we began our Christmas celebration and everything was perfect!

Opening Gifts At Home

Christmas with the Buzek Family at Aunt Connie's - playing cards with the guys

What a treat to add a couple ounces of strained chicken noodle soup to his minimal liquid diet.

I thought he'd probably used up his lifetime's worth of luck, but he did catch a few good hands and walked away from the poker table a full seven dollars richer. :)

I didn't take nearly enough pictures to portray the wonderful time we all had. Today dad was able to attend church for the first time. We all were there together - what a perfect ending to our Christmas holidays.

Great Day at Shoppa's

2009-12-22T14:25:00.000-06:00

Dad was feeling especially well today and wanted so badly to go visit his John Deere stomping ground. It was an emotional return, but he was so happy to see all of the dear friends he's worked with so many years. There were a few not at work today, so he will definitely have to go visit again soon.

Our Christmas Message

2009-12-16T10:29:00.003-06:00

As we approach the Christmas season we find ourselves full of gratitude for the many gifts we have received. Christmas, we have found, is not just a blessed season but a way of life - loving gifts given freely through out the year.

If you gave the gift of blood Louie and many like him, survived because of you.

If you gave the gift of medical care we are so grateful for your expertise and personal attention.

If you gave the gift of friendship, you reduced our stress and made us smile.

If you helped in any way with fundraising, we were overwhelmed by your generosity.

If gave labors of love by taking care of our home, yard, and pets; you eliminated this worry from our every day lives.

And most of all if you prayed Louie is spending this Christmas at home because of you.

We thank you so much. Our lives have been changed in ways we never imagined by people we will never forget.

Love to All, Louie, Ruthie, and Family

HUSTLE AND BUSTLE

2009-12-10T09:47:00.004-06:00

Very few people can say that things have been uneventful, but in Dad's case that's fairly true. While most people are running around getting ready for Christmas, Dad's been able to sit back and visit with his friends while mom's done all of the running.

He's still taking this round of antibiotics, and since the last hospital stint he's been fever free.

Dad, enjoy uneventful while it lasts, because in two short weeks I'll bring those grandkids to visit. They can't wait to see you and... jump on the bunkbeds, break the Christmas ornaments, chase Juliet, scatter the Nativity Set, empty your pantry, and pound on the piano (just to name a few things).

Don't let these angelic faces fool you - especially the little one.

Back Home

2009-12-03T09:31:00.000-06:00

Sorry I didn't get a chance to post, but dad did make it back home on Tuesday evening. He's back on antibiotics and all is going well. We're all hoping this round of antibiotics will work and then he will remain infection-free for a while. He needs to stay home, because it's way too cold outside for a man who wears a gown! :)

Happy Thanksgiving

2009-11-30T09:35:00.001-06:00

Thanksgiving was wonderful We all made a trip to Grandma's. Dad was treated to a a few ounces of clear chicken soup, but the rest of us ate his share of other foods. Dad and Karl even worked in a game of dominoes. Dad said sitting at the table was uncomfortable, but luckily he got good hands and was able to beat Karl pretty quickly. :)

It's unfortunate that after such a great holiday weekend there would have to be another bump in the road, but today Dad is in the El Campo hospital getting antibiotics. He just recently finished the last round of antibiotics, but it appears he has some sort of infection that's causing him to run fever. ECMH is doing some tests and administering antibiotics. His stay there should be fairly short, probably just until antibiotics can be ordered and received for mom to administer at home.

Improvement

2009-11-23T21:04:00.004-06:00

It looks like a routine is coming together. Therapy 3 times a week, the antibiotics are almost finished, and mom has showed vast improvement in her TPN abilities. We will all be in town together for Thanksgiving and dad will make his first trip out of the house (other than the visit to the hospital) on Thanksgiving Day as well all gather together at grandmas. We have so much to be thankful for this year.

Scarlet

2009-11-20T22:34:00.000-06:00

Sadly we found that Scarlets injuries were too severe . She died on Friday. We loved her dearly and are heartbroken by this.. Thank all of you who asked about her and shared your good wishes. --Ruthie

Cat Found

2009-11-17T13:53:00.002-06:00

Scarlet has been found, but she is injured. Dr. Baron is working on her, and we're hoping for Dr. Duke-like results.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DR. RED DUKE!

2009-11-16T16:57:00.002-06:00

Can you believe that steady of a hand at age 81?

THANK YOU!

Have You Seen This Cat?

2009-11-15T21:34:00.000-06:00

The family cat is missing and was last seen early Saturday morning. She stayed close to home the entire time mom and dad were in Houston, and they missed her terribly. (they even had a picture of her hanging in their hospital room) They were so happy to see her when they made it back home. We need help finding Scarlet. A REWARD is being offered. Please call if you see her!

979-541-4914
979-758-4040
979-543-7083

Routines Never Go Routinely

2009-11-11T09:32:00.002-06:00

Mom and Dad are happy to be back home again, and are trying to add the infusion of two antibiotics to the routine. (both of which are administered differently) With so much to do, (and curveballs such as receiving incorrect tubing) getting into a routine seems nearly impossible. TPN, Antibiotic 1, Leaking Ostomy, Antibiotic 2 - OH MY!!! They are making it, and today's wish is for "uneventful". Boy does that sound nice! :)

Home Again

2009-11-10T06:27:00.001-06:00

After a really good day yesterday, dad got to return home last night. All is well.

Update

2009-11-08T20:44:00.001-06:00

Dad is feeling much better although bloodwork did reveal a line infection. Antibiotics appear to be working well and after unsuccessfully trying to put a new line in today they will try again tomorrow in the operating room. He should go home one day this week.

Prayers for Today's Hurdle

2009-11-05T21:45:00.002-06:00

There's been a bump in the road. Today dad began running fever, and after some lab work at El Campo Memorial Hospital, they have decided to admit him to ICU there. His blood pressure is low, so in ICU they will be able to monitor that as well as administer antibiotics for whatever type of infection he has. It is not believed to be a central line infection, thank goodness, but prayers are much appreciated!

Out and About

2009-11-04T10:53:00.000-06:00

It counts as "Out", but not too far from home. Dad loves to get out, but at this point is only ready to go as far as those new tennis shoes and walker can take him. No complaining though, the breaths of fresh air and changes in scenery are very much appreciated! The neighbors and passersby have become accustomed to seeing him in what he refers to as his "dress". One of these days he will wear real clothes again, but in the meantime if he prefers his gown, then so be it. Thankfully he has a manly walker and it is phenomenal. It works great on the street (and even in the grass) and it has a basket that can hold his TPN bag and pump.

It's been almost a week since mom and dad's return to El Campo and overall things have gone well. There was lots to learn in the first few days, especially for mom, but she's done it. She can now add vitamins to TPN, hang daily bags and fix stoma bag leaks. She's doing a great job and we've come a long way since last Thursday and Friday when things were more hectic. I was a little scared when dad first said he needed a little help getting to the bathroom. We all ran around like circus monkeys: unplug this, hold the pump low, hold the bag high, unhook the foley from the walker, don't let him trip on the pump's electrical cord.... You can imagine the chaos. It took 4 of us to make it to the bathroom the first time and I think all of us had our hands full. I had to wonder if he'd ever be able to leave the couch without at least three amigos following.

Thankfully we've come a long way. A new cordless pump (that does not get air in the line) has helped out tremendously. Bonnie, Suz, and I were able to return to our own homes and dad is still able to make it to the bathroom.

Last but certainly not least, we thank everyone for all of kindness they have shown us. All of you who have sent cards, called, stopped by for a quick visit, and helped us with anything and everything. Mom and Dad were so ready to return home and you guys are a constant reminder why they love their hometown so much. I can't imagine a better support system. Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!!!

Stand Up and Go Your Faith Has Saved You

2009-10-29T19:00:00.003-05:00

I can't think of a more fitting verse to describe Louie's "going home" day. Truly from the very first night with each of you praying earnestly for his life to be spared, God listened. These many voices brought Dr. Duke into the emergency room to give the highest level of skill possible. At every turn, your loving prayers allowed him to get better and better. Your part in this recovery process is of utmost importance.

I am going to revise this verse just a bit to include what has really mattered from January 28th until the present.

Stand up and go: your faith and the faith of hundreds of family, friends and strangers has saved you.

When I see him stand up from that wheelchair and step into the car to go home, I will be thinking of each of you. We can never, never thank you enough.

Love to all, Ruthie

UPDATE:

4 PM - DISCHARGED

Saying Goodbye

Notice Dr. Duke is sporting his Shoppa's Farm Supply Hat!

6 PM - WE'RE HOME!

Could it be?

2009-10-27T12:47:00.003-05:00

It looks like mom and dad might be headed home within the next week!

Poem by Marilyn Goerig
A U-HAUL?

Louie’s strength is improving,
And his fever is gone.
Home equipment has been ordered,
And clothes shopping has been done.

With less tubes and equipment,
Less supplies will be needed.
So it seems packing for home
Can proceed unimpeded.

“Back up the truck”
may be just an expression.
But in Ruthie’s case
It’s a necessitation.

If you’ve seen Ruthie’s garden,
In the big corner window,
You can imagine the move home,
Will require a trailer in tow.

Whatever it takes, she says,
We must take them all.
Ordinary transportation for us,
And for the plants, a U-HAUL.

Super Powers

2009-10-22T12:47:00.000-05:00

From: Ruthie

When he gets ready to walk Louie always puts on what he refers to as his "Superman Cape". (Truly its just another gown worn over the shoulders to keep from being arrested in the halllway.) The hospital is possibly the only place where you could walk down the hall somewhat exposed, but they probably discourage it. He does have many "Superman-like" qualities (great strength, helpful, etc.) but even he will tell you this: "Faster than a speeding bullet?"-- Not so much!

He always been partial to camoflouge clothes. Tracy found these great houseshoes at Academy to perk up his wardrobe. A matching gown would really complete the outfit, but so far no luck.

Update from Ruthie

2009-10-20T18:49:00.000-05:00

Everything is going well. Dr. Duke took out one of the central lines, leaving the one line for TPN. He has an IV in his arm for fluids etc.and to administer medication. We continue to walk three times every day building Louie's endurance and stamina.We are definitely looking forward to going home, but getting released seems to be a slow process. We are very thankful Dr. Jud Severson has agreed to be Louie's doctor in El Campo, and we are grateful for his expertise. Dr. Duke will be in touch with him.

Another Introduction --- Meet Michael Segal

2009-10-16T08:43:00.001-05:00

From: Ruthie

He is an absolutely amazing individual who has overcome HUGE odds to be the person he is today. (see Michael's website for his full story http://www.inspirationbymike.com/ )
When he was in college he walked in on a convenience store robbery. Forced into the cooler, he was shot in the back of the head execution style. Not expecting Michael to survive the night, the neurosurgeon went home. The next day he had surgery, but it was still believed that he would never be able to return to college or meet his goals. With sheer determination he moved forward and did return to UT and graduated in the top of his class. We do so admire Mike, although we try not to give him a big head. We constantly tease each other because he makes very light of his injury. We remind him that when he makes a mistake and blames it on being "shot in the head" that we are having none of it." “No way--You recovered from that! However, graduating from UT? You NEVER recover from that". :)

Today, he and Louie were speaking of something and both had the same thought. Michael said, “You mean a UT GUY and an Aggie Dad had the same idea??? Amazing." (There might be hope for him yet.).

Seriously though, I first met him in one of the first days we were in Hermann Memorial. He leads a support group on Wednesdays in STICU and he is so very understanding. Beginning with introductions of each family member and his own story, Michael ends every session with a prayer. In that waiting room we all needed that kind of support. Smart man that he is, he lures us there with great cookies, Starbucks coffee, and ice cold drinks; then we experience his kindness and we are hooked. He continues to visit us each day on the 4 days he is working at the hospital. Often on Wednesdays, he arrives with cookies but ALWAYS he comes with a smile and a request to "tell me something good". He's positive and he gives us HOPE. I am inclined to believe that God saved Michael to help others through their fears and near tragedies. If that is the case, he is fulfilling his destiny.

Denise

2009-10-15T09:43:00.000-05:00

From Ruthie --

Denise is a Physician Assistant on our floor, Jones 6. She worked with Dr. Duke and the other trauma doctors until recently when she moved to the Orthopedic Service. What a loss for trauma!!! Denise's brother was very very ill in the hospital some years ago, and it was after that event that she decided to become a Physician Assistant. She has been on both sides of the medical fence so let me tell you a little secret about her. DENISE CARES! Denise cares if you understand, and she cares how you feel . It is not enough for a patient to just be able to live , rather she wants you to be able to control pain, to be able to hear what is going on around you , and to not be afraid. You can ask Denise a question one day and if you forget the answer you can ask her again, and maybe even again. She knows we walk in unfamiliar territory because she too, felt the need to understand during her brother's illness. She was a great connection to Dr. Duke because she worked so closely with him. We called her "the wound vac queen" because she could not only hear a wound vac beeping from anywhere on the floor (with some sort of inner radar she possesses) but she could find the problem, whether it came from the machine itself or more likely from its connections to the wound. I learned so very much from her--I credit passing Wound Vac 101 to my very patient tutor, Denise. Her capabilities for getting things done are amazing. Even though we are not officially on her patient rounds, she comes by to see us and I can call her at ANYTIME. If I could pick the one person who has helped me keep my sanity in the past few months, it would have to be Denise. You can question, you can cry, you can rejoice. Denise is not above you or beyond you. She is right beside you, and I admire her more than I can ever say.

Joy Times Ten

2009-10-15T09:33:00.002-05:00

From Ruthie --

We have had some wonderful concerts here at Hermann Hospital but it would be difficult to top the beautiful blended voices of 10 friends on Friday night. Shane came back for a visit from Michigan. He volunteered here previously, and we came to love seeing him. His twin brother Sheldon traveled with him this time. Sheldon will be here in January to start his volunteer stay. We do not have plans to see him here on Jones 6, but they have promised to come see us in El Campo. You may recognize some of the faces as our local EC talent. They sang song after song and made our usual Friday night, something special. On Monday, Shane and some of the others dropped by before going to the airport. Louie so enjoys talking to them, sharing farming and hunting stories. He would love to visit them in Michigan at some point, --Shane said he would be warmly welcomed.

Daily Report

2009-10-14T16:12:00.000-05:00

Dad had a busy afternoon. He went to have a line changed, had quite a bit of fluid drained from his lungs, and had an x-ray. I would say that the removal of fluid would make him feel better, but the fluid had not made him feel bad to begin with. Having had the small chest tube placed (something Dr. Duke calls a "pigtail"), he actually feels WORSE than before. The soreness should wear off and hopefully he'll feel better soon. He's had some fever off and on, but he does not have any fever right now and has been treated with antibiotics.

God's Plan

2009-10-12T08:05:00.001-05:00

By: Marilyn Goerig

God, You brought Louie this far;
There is a Divine Plan.
We continue to place our trust
In Your powerful, healing hand.

From that near-fatal night
When you saved him from certain death;
And held him close to your heart;
We knew Louie’s path had been set.

Only prayer and a miracle
Could keep him here.
In the ambulance and Life Flight;
His injuries were so severe.

One miracle and then another
As his heart stopped in the E.R.;
So many prayers stormed the gates of heaven;
God turned him away from death’s door.

An extremely difficult procedure;
God guided surgery’s best.
Dr. Duke told us afterwards;
His skills were put to the test.

He worked for over six hours
On what seemed a hopeless case.
And he was the first to admit
He is only alive by God’s grace.

Louie fought for his life
Remaining critical day after day.
He overcame each complication,
As so many continued to pray.

Though he struggled with tubes and grafts and pain;
His strength continued to improve.
We wondered as the tubes were slowly removed;
Could he be going home soon?

God does have a plan for Louie;
Though we know not what it might be;
We stand in awe of God’s power
And prayerfully wait and see.

Closer to Home

2009-10-09T16:00:00.001-05:00

Dad's still working toward going home and it seems like he's getting closer. Mom and Dad do physical therapy 3 times a day and he's getting stronger. The pain pump's been removed. All that is left is the IV bag, TPN , and fistula bag. TPN currently gives him all of the nutrition that he needs and will continue to do so when he goes home. He is adjusting to the fact that his diet will only be medicine cups full of water or Dr. Pepper and occasional popsicles. We still pray that some time down road the bowel will be able to be fixed and will one day be able to eat again. In the mean time he looks forward to riding around to look at the fields, being able to attend family get-togethers, going outside whenever he wishes, and spending more time with the grandchildren. This is his second chance; he doesn't want to miss a thing!

He's Still Got It In Him

2009-10-06T10:06:00.000-05:00

Now don't let 8+ months of hospitalization or 94 surgeries let your mechanic skills get rusty. The wheels on dad's walker were in desperate need of some oiling and without some good WD-40 available, he had to be resourceful. Some mineral oil (that is really intended for his ears) and a syringe did the trick. (probably not as well as WD-40, but definitely an improvement) Good News is that we've ordered a new walker - one fit for a man who loves the outdoors, with rubber tires and all!

On another note dad had a small set back this weekend with an infection, but thankfully antibiotics seem to be working.

Another Concert from the Menonite Singers

2009-10-02T08:37:00.001-05:00

Recognize This Face?

2009-09-29T09:33:00.006-05:00

It's been a while since we've had an unobstructed view. Doesn't he look great?

Goodbye to the NG tube (and the band aid that covered his nose). Dad hated the NG tube - it was uncomfortable, cut up his nose, and always got in the way. Dr. Duke said he was hesitant to take it out because after so many months it would be very painful if he had to put it back in. Well Dad said it was very painful to take it out, so we're definitely praying that it doesn't need to have it re-done. We wanted to post "pray that they take it out soon, and that he does well without it", but then Dr. Duke surprised us and pulled yesterday. So, instead of praying for it's removal, pray that he will not become nauseous and that will feel okay without it suctioning his stomach. (months ago it removed briefly but had to be re-inserted when he became very nauseous). It was pulled out yesterday evening and so far so good!!!

Dad showing that both nostrils are free... and I guess he can fill them with kleenex if he so pleases. However, be careful what you joke about - I'd hate for the hayfever to find you! :)

A Visit From His Boy

2009-09-27T18:47:00.006-05:00

Anyone who knows dad well knows just how much he loves this little boy. He raised the three of us girls and then still had to wait another couple of decades to get his chance with a boy. Not a son, but a grandson (that's possibly even better). Me coming to visit seems to be 100 times better if I bring Tate with me. We come in with a bang and Dad lights up at the sound of "PAWPAW!"

Tate has a current infatuation with shoes, and it took him less than 20 seconds to notice that Pawpaw wasn't wearing any. (He was with me when we bought Pawpaw's shoes, so he knows that he has some) Sitting in the chair didn't require running shoes, but when Jocelyn showed up Tate was eagar to help Pawpaw get his shoes on (with some help from Mimi).

Tate telling me to "come on". He's right, no time for pictures, dad was walking pretty fast!

A few pictures from the Waiting Room. I'm not sure which one of them was having more fun.

Graduation Day

2009-09-26T21:06:00.005-05:00

I would like for you to meet another member of Louie's health care team. Jocelyn is the physical therapist that has worked with Louie for the pastseveral months. She may be only 5 feet tall , but I would pair her against anyone for strength and agility. In the beginning she would patiently organize wound vacs, IV's, suction tubes, drains, etc. to painstakingly get him up to first sitting, and later standing and slowly walking to the window. The process of getting him "ready" was long and complicated but she patiently did so for the few steps he was able to withstand. After that she would reverse the whole process to get him back in bed again. He would make progress only to be set back after skin grafts (no physical therapy for 3 weeks). Each time however when Dr. Duke said physical therapy could be resumed she was back again to start over. He has soared under her direction and she has taught me so much!! As each set of goals was met, new goals were determined. She taught us how to work together using the wheelchair, the walker , the IV pole and other apparatus. I did not realize that she was slowly moving us toward independence with only each other. We were able to leave the room -- going to the chapel and even outside. There is certain criteria set for floor patients and he has met each of them. Today, as she put it, was Graduation Day. We will now, three times a day, do the work she set out for him on our own. We will continue toward building his strength as Dr. Duke gets him ready to go home. When he returns to El Campo he will continue physical therapy locally. When Jocelyn first mentioned that she would not be with us each day, I was quite honestly afraid. She is a joy to have around and I had come to think of her as our safety net. We have practiced alone in the evenings this week and I think we are ready to fly. She will still be around the floor to answer questions, if needed. Letting go is hard, but another measure of success. Thank you , Jocelyn!!

Love to all, Ruthie

Pictures from the last day of therapy

Learning to step up and down is literally crucial for his trip home. It get's him in the front door. :) He did great!

Field Trip

2009-09-23T13:44:00.003-05:00

Dr. Duke recently invited Louie on an outing to the 2nd Floor--Surgery. He told us many people had been asking about Louie and wanted to see him. These people were amazed at how good he looked - claiming they never would have recognized him! Dr. Duke, (ever perceptive, of course) answered, "Of course not , you've never seen him with his clothes on!!!"

Their picture was taken in front of operating room 18 where Louie had the majority of his 94 surgeries.

Love to all, Ruthie