“I won’t have the wedding without you, Dad”. “Don’t worry, Bonnie, I’ll be there”. A recent exchange between Bonnie and Louie revealed that the wonderful wedding that Bonnie had carefully planned might now conflict with the opportunity for Louie to have the long awaited surgery to reconnect his intestines. This surgery combined with the skill of a plastic surgeon to cover and protect the intestines would be very serious. Recovery time could be extensive. This was the opportunity for her dad to eat regularly, eliminate the leaking bag, and possibly move forward to a new “normal” in his life. She \planned the wedding so far out with a 14 month engagement only to have the surgery now appear to collide with the wedding . Bonnie, however, never looked back in her joyous encouragement to have the surgery as soon as possible. There were worries about whether dad would be recovered enough to attend the June 25th wedding. If complications occurred she could not fathom having the wedding without him there. No, answers, no promises… Hospital stays can be unpredictable as we learned in the past. Uncharted territory can sometimes have roadblocks. ….Bonnie , with Michael’s blessing started a ball rolling that took her entire June 25th wedding --church, civic center, caterer , florist, photographer etc. etc EVERY DETAIL to early May. She literally “picked up” the whole wedding and moved to a week before the surgery. Truly God had a hand in this.
In summary, on May 7th, 2011, Louie will proudly walk Bonnie down the aisle of St. Philip Church to marry Michael Kaspar. It will be a joyous and proud moment as we are surrounded by family and friends. I have learned much from this experience---Life doesn’t always conform to our carefully planned agenda, however, with God anything is possible. Most of all I’ve learned that the most precious gift doesn’t come wrapped in shiny paper.There may be no beautiful bow or glittery ribbon. You might not even be able to unwrap the tissue and tape. Why? Because sometimes the most precious gift is the gift of love.
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I have known the Buzek family since 1985. Bonnie's choice is so Buzek. This is the most loving and giving family I have ever known. The relationship between Bonnie and Louis is priceless and has always been very obvious. The love this family shares with all who are lucky enough to cross their paths is lifelong. Unfortunately, distance has separated our families, but I still feel their love each time I am able to get back to EC from Florida.
ReplyDeleteBonnie, I wish I could be there to see you walk down the aisle. Please know my thoughts will be with you on your special day as your daddy proudly gives you to your love.
Louis, my prayers are with you as you walk the path to your new normal.
Ruthie, your love of your husband is the true meaning of marriage. You two are the perfect example of what married life means.
Tracy, thank you so much for continuing this blog. It really is a Godsend.
Suzanne, I wish you so much success with school and life, eventhough you will always be the cute little girl in my minds eyes.
Deb Murray
Very touching post! I'm so happy that Bonnie will still get her wedding with her dad by her side, as that is truly the most important thing. Congratulations Bonnie & Michael and good luck to Mr. Buzek for his upcoming surgery and recovery! God bless you.
ReplyDeleteI love that he will walk her down the aisle. Blessing to you all...enjoy every moment of this!
ReplyDeleteAs I read this post, tears came to my eyes...what wonderful gifts from God that Louie will finally have the surgery he needs and Bonnie will have her Daddy walk her down the aisle. Our prayers will be with you this Saturday and in the following weeks as you continue your journey to complete recovery. Always know Louie and Ruthie that we think of you daily and ask God to give you and your family strength on the long days ahead.
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Cory, Cheyenne and Jennifer Morton
This was a beautiful post, thank you for sharing it brought tears to my eyes. Yall are such a wonderful and strong family!!
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