Notes from Ruthie

No surgery today! That, in itself, is a good thing, but day by day he is adjusting to his return to the world. He was awake and sitting up in the chair for some time in the early afternoon. He requested a Dr. Pepper and later water. He asks for these things very matter-of-factly, but unfortunately some wishes can't be met yet. He wanted to get up from the chair, or at the very least, roll out of the room. Several times he asked Bonnie or me to help him up to his feet. Unfortunately, we said we could not do it. He felt, I believe, that we must have been just too weak because he really grabbed onto Michael when he visited. (Now here's a guy with some strength!!!) Again, no luck. The nurse mentioned a future time when he might be wheeled outside, but he will have to get off the vent first. FORGET THE VENT---he was quite interested in that idea. That sounded like a wonderful prospect and he brought it up a few times. I did request that since he was now awake, we would like to transfer to the ICU Patio Suite instead of STICU Room 1, our current home. The nurse couldn't believe we were not pleased with our picturesque view of a cement wall. (I'm sure the nurse thought "Geez,these people are so needy!) I can imagine lovely french doors leading to a sunny fragrant garden area with comfortable seating and cool drinks. We ARE on the 3rd floor though. Hmmm, that could be quite a jump.
On another note,Wayne and Wanda came by later this afternoon. Wanda proved herself to be a good lip reader and they had a great conversation. Louie even laughed!! Wow--its been a long time.
He is coping with all of this well as he takes time to process things, little by little, bit by bit. We are praying that the healing of his body will catch up with his mindset as we move forward to wean off the vent, get that bowel to heal, complete the surgery marathon and cheer on the liver and kidneys to work efficently. Your prayers mean everything!! Don't stop---we can win this race.

Love to all, Ruthie